Proverbs 10:19 "In the multitude of words there wanteth not sin: but he that refraineth his lips is wise."
I have a problem.....
I talk too much.
Shocking, I know.
I wish I knew how to keep quiet and still. Sometimes, I am obedient to the wisdom of silence, and other times, I lose all self-control and say too much. I cannot express to you how many times I have emailed or called a friend, apologizing and hoping they didn't take offense to whatever foolishness may have escaped my lips at the time. There are times I am well meaning, but what comes out of my mouth is not very eloquent or graceful.
I interrupt.
I make jokes.
I follow rabbit trails.
Any spiritual encouragement is lost at times, simply because I have said too much.
All in all, most times I sound like an idiot.
As women, it is one of the most difficult things to stay out of gossip, or perhaps our feelings or emotions towards a hurtful relationship plays out in a conversation with a mutual friend. Oh, how many times I wished I had refrained my lips, at the very least to appear wise. Flippant words uttered that I can never take back. For "Even a fool, when he holdeth his peace, is counted wise: and he that shutteth his lips is esteemed a man of understanding." Proverbs 17:28
"In the multitude of words..." it's so very easy to say too much, and end up in sin. I pray we all learn to hold our tongue, speak words of encouragement and grace, and build others up instead of trying to sound like the all-wise, all-knowing, woman of wisdom. But also, to keep quiet, emit peace, and just listen.
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Wednesday, May 23, 2012
Wednesday, May 09, 2012
Let Go and Let God
I follow many blogs. Most are about homeschooling, homemaking, large families, or natural living. It's easy to get caught up in what advice is the perfect formula for raising children, organizing your homeschool room, meal planning, or preparedness living. So many ideas, so much advice, all wonderful and spot on, but at the same time, overwhelming.
Sometimes I find myself wishing I had all the answers. Then I'd organize them into yet another black binder...
If I follow this person's advice, I'll have a great relationship with my husband. If I follow this other person's advice, I'll have a best friend of my daughters. If I follow another person's advice, I'll incorporate the perfect curriculum. If I follow yet another person's advice, I'll be able to survive the apocalypse. Maybe not so much on the latter, but you get the idea.
It's very easy for us to find people we admire, take all of their advice, store it in our brain, and then get overwhelmed, hoping we get it right, do it right, say it right, so that the formula will come out right in the end. We can't handle all of the information, much less put it to use! Does X + Y really = Z?! I need the right answers!
This morning was a processing day for me, apparently. Feeling overwhelmed and like a failure, I made my way out to the garden, the only place to be alone and quiet, and cried out to the Lord. I want to be a good wife, mother, friend to my children, and at the same time take care of all that you've blessed me with! I can't do it all! I can't guarantee that all of my efforts will be worth it! I have no other option but to give it to you, Lord, all of it, every bit of it! I cannot do it on my own, without Your guidance and wisdom, I am sunk.
Then came peace. Give it to the Lord. Do all I can, with what little knowledge, talent, and wisdom I have, and let God do the rest.
I can't create the perfect family or perfect life, mostly because I am an imperfect mother, raising imperfect children, and married to an imperfect man. It will never work. However, I can do my best to raise my children up in "the nurture and admonition of the Lord." (Eph 6:4), to be a godly wife, and to keep up with the home and land the Lord has entrusted me with.
And leave the rest to God.
"As for God, his way is perfect; the word of the LORD is tried: he is a buckler to all them that trust in him. God is my strength and power: and he maketh my way perfect." 2 Samuel 22:31 & 33
Sometimes I find myself wishing I had all the answers. Then I'd organize them into yet another black binder...
If I follow this person's advice, I'll have a great relationship with my husband. If I follow this other person's advice, I'll have a best friend of my daughters. If I follow another person's advice, I'll incorporate the perfect curriculum. If I follow yet another person's advice, I'll be able to survive the apocalypse. Maybe not so much on the latter, but you get the idea.
It's very easy for us to find people we admire, take all of their advice, store it in our brain, and then get overwhelmed, hoping we get it right, do it right, say it right, so that the formula will come out right in the end. We can't handle all of the information, much less put it to use! Does X + Y really = Z?! I need the right answers!
This morning was a processing day for me, apparently. Feeling overwhelmed and like a failure, I made my way out to the garden, the only place to be alone and quiet, and cried out to the Lord. I want to be a good wife, mother, friend to my children, and at the same time take care of all that you've blessed me with! I can't do it all! I can't guarantee that all of my efforts will be worth it! I have no other option but to give it to you, Lord, all of it, every bit of it! I cannot do it on my own, without Your guidance and wisdom, I am sunk.
Then came peace. Give it to the Lord. Do all I can, with what little knowledge, talent, and wisdom I have, and let God do the rest.
I can't create the perfect family or perfect life, mostly because I am an imperfect mother, raising imperfect children, and married to an imperfect man. It will never work. However, I can do my best to raise my children up in "the nurture and admonition of the Lord." (Eph 6:4), to be a godly wife, and to keep up with the home and land the Lord has entrusted me with.
And leave the rest to God.
"As for God, his way is perfect; the word of the LORD is tried: he is a buckler to all them that trust in him. God is my strength and power: and he maketh my way perfect." 2 Samuel 22:31 & 33
Friday, May 04, 2012
On the Subject of Trendiness
Trendy
Whatever excuse you may make for yourself, it is basically because you wish to be accepted by the world. To fit in and not be considered a freak or different. Even though we are to be set apart, to be in the world, but not of it, the truth is, all too often we are enticed by what the world has to offer.
2. marked by ephemeral, superficial, or faddish appeal or taste
How many times have we looked at fashions past, commented on how ugly or foolish some fads were, and before we know it, that same style is back. Those who vehemently were against such style, now think "it's the cutest thing EVER!" Really? Because it's only going to fade away yet again and you'll look back thinking "why did I ever give in to that stupid trend?"
But who determines style, trends, and fashion? The world! Enter the eternal struggle of Christians claiming to be in the world, but not of it. The subject of “trend” or what’s “in style” has always been a stumbling block. It is not for us to “lust” after the world and their rules, but to concern ourselves with the will of God. And who really cares what we wear? The world? Is it really worth it?
Let me just say, that I am not against finding a style that suits you, whether it’s something that is currently trendy, or something that is considered out-dated. Why not dress in a manner that is not only pleasing to the Lord, your brothers and sisters in Christ, but still holds true to your personality. Be your own style, and make it who you are, not who the world thinks you should be. I believe we can dress in a way that appeals to wholesomeness, modesty, and good taste and still not be "freakish". Dressing appropriately doesn’t mean you have to give up personal style, but it does mean that you may have to give up the latest trend.
A word I seem to hear often. Even in my conservative Christian circle, I hear reference to that particular word......
“Surely I can dress modestly and still be trendy!”
As a Christian woman, concerned with the issue of modesty, what is the motivation for dressing in a trendy style?
Otherwise, why would it matter so much.
Why base your self-worth on something that's here today and gone tomorrow?
Why base your self-worth on something that's here today and gone tomorrow?
The definition of “trendy”:
1. very fashionable; up-to-date2. marked by ephemeral, superficial, or faddish appeal or taste
How many times have we looked at fashions past, commented on how ugly or foolish some fads were, and before we know it, that same style is back. Those who vehemently were against such style, now think "it's the cutest thing EVER!" Really? Because it's only going to fade away yet again and you'll look back thinking "why did I ever give in to that stupid trend?"
But who determines style, trends, and fashion? The world! Enter the eternal struggle of Christians claiming to be in the world, but not of it. The subject of “trend” or what’s “in style” has always been a stumbling block. It is not for us to “lust” after the world and their rules, but to concern ourselves with the will of God. And who really cares what we wear? The world? Is it really worth it?
Let me just say, that I am not against finding a style that suits you, whether it’s something that is currently trendy, or something that is considered out-dated. Why not dress in a manner that is not only pleasing to the Lord, your brothers and sisters in Christ, but still holds true to your personality. Be your own style, and make it who you are, not who the world thinks you should be. I believe we can dress in a way that appeals to wholesomeness, modesty, and good taste and still not be "freakish". Dressing appropriately doesn’t mean you have to give up personal style, but it does mean that you may have to give up the latest trend.
1 John 2:15-17
"Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever."
Friday, February 24, 2012
On Proverbs 31
I have an "observation" about the Proverbs 31 woman...
She had servants. Of course she's amazing, she had servants! I could be equally amazing if *I* had servants...
And then it happened. My washing machine broke. Determined to not buy another one, because surely I could Proverbs 31 my way into capably washing all of my clothes (and cloth diapers) by hand, I stubbornly refused investing in a new machine.
The kids and I hand washed, with the help of my awesome washer plunger, all of our laundry. It was fine for the first few days, and then I found myself getting behind. The hardest part of it all was wringing out the laundry. It seemed like no amount of twisting and wringing by hand got the clothes any drier. We would spend an hour or two a day, just doing laundry, and all of this while it was really rainy outside.
Um, that lasted all of 3.5 weeks.
It was then that I realized, I DO have servants. No, not my children, smart-aleck, BUT, I have a dishwasher, washing machine, dryer, water heater, vacuum cleaner, wheat grinder, blender, indoor plumbing, etc. Even if I were living more primitively, I'd have a washboard, hand wringer, wood stove, hand blender, hand grinder, work horses and such.
Let me tell you, I for sure felt like a Proverbs 31 woman for those 3.5 weeks, but I was so appreciative when my sweet husband went out and bought me a new washing machine last weekend. Talk about a relief and a blessing. I have been thanking the Lord for my "servants" all week. And thank you Proverbs 31 lady, for making the perfect woman seem a little more attainable.
I'm still trying to figure out how I can get out of verse 26. Oops, did I say that out loud....?
She had servants. Of course she's amazing, she had servants! I could be equally amazing if *I* had servants...
And then it happened. My washing machine broke. Determined to not buy another one, because surely I could Proverbs 31 my way into capably washing all of my clothes (and cloth diapers) by hand, I stubbornly refused investing in a new machine.
The kids and I hand washed, with the help of my awesome washer plunger, all of our laundry. It was fine for the first few days, and then I found myself getting behind. The hardest part of it all was wringing out the laundry. It seemed like no amount of twisting and wringing by hand got the clothes any drier. We would spend an hour or two a day, just doing laundry, and all of this while it was really rainy outside.
Um, that lasted all of 3.5 weeks.
It was then that I realized, I DO have servants. No, not my children, smart-aleck, BUT, I have a dishwasher, washing machine, dryer, water heater, vacuum cleaner, wheat grinder, blender, indoor plumbing, etc. Even if I were living more primitively, I'd have a washboard, hand wringer, wood stove, hand blender, hand grinder, work horses and such.
Let me tell you, I for sure felt like a Proverbs 31 woman for those 3.5 weeks, but I was so appreciative when my sweet husband went out and bought me a new washing machine last weekend. Talk about a relief and a blessing. I have been thanking the Lord for my "servants" all week. And thank you Proverbs 31 lady, for making the perfect woman seem a little more attainable.
I'm still trying to figure out how I can get out of verse 26. Oops, did I say that out loud....?
Tuesday, January 31, 2012
A Meek and Quiet Spirit
One of my many struggles.........a meek and quiet spirit. Neither, of which, comes naturally......obviously.
In my daily quiet time, I've prayed, begged, prayed more, and bartered with the Lord to just GIVE me a meek and quiet spirit. You know, I don't want to have to work at it or anything.....but all things earned are definitely much more appreciated. About a year ago, I realized I was too frazzled, too impatient, too frustrated, and too angry. Why did it take so long to figure that out? I dunno. I'm a slow learner. However, I have learned and grown in my quietness (some) and I recently read the book Homeschooling with a Meek and Quiet Spirit by Teri Maxwell, which happened to find me at the appropriate time. Funny how the Lord arranges those sorts of meetings...
In every character building stage of our lives, there will always be challenges that bring about temptation and may or may not cause us to fail. Or at least take a couple of steps back. Tonight was one of those times...
Dinner time. Mom is trying to get everything on the table. At the same time trying to get everyONE to the table. Dad is late. One child is loudly singing a hymn. Another child is loudly humming a different hymn. Yet another child is whistling an unidentified piece of music. A three-year-old is banging a fork on the table. An eleven-month-old is crying. A lively daughter is doing pirouettes around her chair. Another three-year-old is whining. And the pouring rain in the background, for once, isn't soothing.
You want to know how I handled it all? I did what every stressed-out dinner-time mom would have done. I yelled. "WILL EVERYONE PLEASE BE QUIET!!!!!!" "For crying out loud, can we all just come to the table, sit down, and be STILL AND QUIET?!!!!!!"
For that one moment, all my hard work in meekness, or quietness........is just gone. I would love to tell you that this sort of thing rarely happens, but I'd be lying. It happens all too often. It did get quiet though....
The difference is, when I respond to my children with wrath and frustration, they become scared or frustrated themselves. When I respond in quietness and gentleness, and with a smile on my face, they respond in like manner. No one was doing anything wrong. Except maybe the whining. I'll never be able to handle that! But no one was being disobedient or sinful, they were merely being themselves, joyful, happy children, and I burst the joyful bubble. The atmosphere at the dinner table was completely different from what it was just a few moments before my outburst.
It's amazing how one little temper tantrum, or angry fit from a parent, can rob the room of joy. Thankfully, my children recover quickly, and thankfully, they always are ready and willing to accept my apologies.
"But the meek shall inherit the earth; and shall delight themselves in the abundance of peace." Psalm 37:11
Maybe I don't want the whole earth, but I do want my children's hearts. And an abundance of peace. :)
In my daily quiet time, I've prayed, begged, prayed more, and bartered with the Lord to just GIVE me a meek and quiet spirit. You know, I don't want to have to work at it or anything.....but all things earned are definitely much more appreciated. About a year ago, I realized I was too frazzled, too impatient, too frustrated, and too angry. Why did it take so long to figure that out? I dunno. I'm a slow learner. However, I have learned and grown in my quietness (some) and I recently read the book Homeschooling with a Meek and Quiet Spirit by Teri Maxwell, which happened to find me at the appropriate time. Funny how the Lord arranges those sorts of meetings...
In every character building stage of our lives, there will always be challenges that bring about temptation and may or may not cause us to fail. Or at least take a couple of steps back. Tonight was one of those times...
Dinner time. Mom is trying to get everything on the table. At the same time trying to get everyONE to the table. Dad is late. One child is loudly singing a hymn. Another child is loudly humming a different hymn. Yet another child is whistling an unidentified piece of music. A three-year-old is banging a fork on the table. An eleven-month-old is crying. A lively daughter is doing pirouettes around her chair. Another three-year-old is whining. And the pouring rain in the background, for once, isn't soothing.
You want to know how I handled it all? I did what every stressed-out dinner-time mom would have done. I yelled. "WILL EVERYONE PLEASE BE QUIET!!!!!!" "For crying out loud, can we all just come to the table, sit down, and be STILL AND QUIET?!!!!!!"
For that one moment, all my hard work in meekness, or quietness........is just gone. I would love to tell you that this sort of thing rarely happens, but I'd be lying. It happens all too often. It did get quiet though....
The difference is, when I respond to my children with wrath and frustration, they become scared or frustrated themselves. When I respond in quietness and gentleness, and with a smile on my face, they respond in like manner. No one was doing anything wrong. Except maybe the whining. I'll never be able to handle that! But no one was being disobedient or sinful, they were merely being themselves, joyful, happy children, and I burst the joyful bubble. The atmosphere at the dinner table was completely different from what it was just a few moments before my outburst.
It's amazing how one little temper tantrum, or angry fit from a parent, can rob the room of joy. Thankfully, my children recover quickly, and thankfully, they always are ready and willing to accept my apologies.
"But the meek shall inherit the earth; and shall delight themselves in the abundance of peace." Psalm 37:11
Maybe I don't want the whole earth, but I do want my children's hearts. And an abundance of peace. :)
Wednesday, November 02, 2011
Day 30 of Joy
I know I promised to post my last post on Joy, yesterday, but aside from a teething baby, a large boutique order, and life in general, there was little time to type. Sooooo, today is a new day.
How did your 30 days of joy go? What did you find difficult? Did you have to remind yourself to be joyful, stop and pray about your source of joy, or were there times it came to you easily amidst the turmoil of the day?
I have times of difficulty. When I find myself with a teething infant, a trying three year old, an obnoxious boy, a wild child, an emotional pre-teen.........it can be a bit rough to find joy in those days and moments. When I want to hide, vent to hubby, or plop down on the couch exclaiming "I just need a moment to myself!" It's not easy to hide my frustration sometimes, and seeking joy in the "less-than-lovely" days can be trying.
Those are the days I need a hug, a word of encouragement, or just to go to the bathroom by myself....
"The LORD thy God in the midst of thee is mighty; he will save, he will rejoice over thee with joy; he will rest in his love, he will joy over thee with singing." Zephaniah 3:17
I love that verse. When I have overwhelming and tiresome days, The Lord is mighty, I can rest in His strength and His love. He joys over me with singing! What? The Lord finds joy in ME? He rejoices over ME? What an humbling thought. That the Lord can find joy in my insignificant life. Me, a sinner, a frustrated mother, an imperfect wife, a selfish daughter, and an unworthy friend. Praise the Lord for His mercy, and unfailing love. Without it I would never have true joy! Joy in a weepy girl who just wants a mom's hug. Joy in a teething infant who just wants to cuddle. Joy in a busy toddler who just wants mommy to read to them. Joy in an active boy who just wants mom's adoration. Joy in a talkative teen who just wants mom's approval. Joy in a husband's work who just wants companionship. Joy in busy days because the Lord has provided so much for this family. Joy in waiting because patience produces perfect timing. Joy in the little things because they can soon become big things. Joy in salvation because the Lord is far more gracious than I deserve.
Isaiah 61:10 "I will greatly rejoice in the LORD, my soul shall be joyful in my God; for he hath clothed me with the garments of salvation, he hath covered me with the robe of righteousness, as a bridegroom decketh himself with ornaments, and as a bride adorneth herself with her jewels."
Where does our joy come from? From the Lord. Not from things, children, husbands, jobs, church, abilities, but from the Lord! Place your trust in Him. Lean on Him. Rest in Him. There you will find joy.
Psalm 16:11 "Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore."
How did your 30 days of joy go? What did you find difficult? Did you have to remind yourself to be joyful, stop and pray about your source of joy, or were there times it came to you easily amidst the turmoil of the day?
I have times of difficulty. When I find myself with a teething infant, a trying three year old, an obnoxious boy, a wild child, an emotional pre-teen.........it can be a bit rough to find joy in those days and moments. When I want to hide, vent to hubby, or plop down on the couch exclaiming "I just need a moment to myself!" It's not easy to hide my frustration sometimes, and seeking joy in the "less-than-lovely" days can be trying.
Those are the days I need a hug, a word of encouragement, or just to go to the bathroom by myself....
"The LORD thy God in the midst of thee is mighty; he will save, he will rejoice over thee with joy; he will rest in his love, he will joy over thee with singing." Zephaniah 3:17
I love that verse. When I have overwhelming and tiresome days, The Lord is mighty, I can rest in His strength and His love. He joys over me with singing! What? The Lord finds joy in ME? He rejoices over ME? What an humbling thought. That the Lord can find joy in my insignificant life. Me, a sinner, a frustrated mother, an imperfect wife, a selfish daughter, and an unworthy friend. Praise the Lord for His mercy, and unfailing love. Without it I would never have true joy! Joy in a weepy girl who just wants a mom's hug. Joy in a teething infant who just wants to cuddle. Joy in a busy toddler who just wants mommy to read to them. Joy in an active boy who just wants mom's adoration. Joy in a talkative teen who just wants mom's approval. Joy in a husband's work who just wants companionship. Joy in busy days because the Lord has provided so much for this family. Joy in waiting because patience produces perfect timing. Joy in the little things because they can soon become big things. Joy in salvation because the Lord is far more gracious than I deserve.
Isaiah 61:10 "I will greatly rejoice in the LORD, my soul shall be joyful in my God; for he hath clothed me with the garments of salvation, he hath covered me with the robe of righteousness, as a bridegroom decketh himself with ornaments, and as a bride adorneth herself with her jewels."
Where does our joy come from? From the Lord. Not from things, children, husbands, jobs, church, abilities, but from the Lord! Place your trust in Him. Lean on Him. Rest in Him. There you will find joy.
Psalm 16:11 "Thou wilt shew me the path of life: in thy presence is fulness of joy; at thy right hand there are pleasures for evermore."
Tuesday, October 04, 2011
Being Faithful in the Least
"Well done, thou good and faithful servant: thou hast been faithful over a few things, I will make thee ruler over many things:" Matthew 25:21
"He that is faithful in that which is least is faithful also in much: and he that is unjust in the least is unjust also in much." Luke 16:10
I'm sure it is public knowledge that our family is in want of land.....we have prayed for land for years and years. The Lord blessed us with our current home on 1/3 of an acre, which was a lot more than we previously had, but now we want more. Lots more! In all of our praying for land, our desire for land, our begging for land, we have yet to move from this place. Several months ago, the Lord laid it on my heart, that He has blessed us with the space we presently own, and if we intend to build a working farm and homestead, then we need to prove to ourselves and to Him that we are capable of taking care of what we already have. Otherwise, how can we possibly take care of even more?! The verse from Matthew constantly came to my mind, and so, we have made a conscience effort to be faithful in our small lot.
Ken, getting ready to grind corn.
The last couple of years we have been testing, planning, reading, and plotting our future. Whether we have a few acres or many, we desire to know how to grow efficiently, what plants we are accomplished in raising, and which ones we need to observe and test some more. How to keep a garden in the fall as well as in the spring, and design a diverse collection of herbs. Do we want goats, cows, sheep, chickens? All of the above? Researching, asking many questions, visiting a couple of working farms, and consulting with my ever-wise father-in-law are some of the ways we have been preparing. Our goal is to not be completely ignorant by the time we begin our future in farming, and of course, we desire to be debt free.
And so, our small homestead has begun. Prayerfully, I will be blogging about our large homestead one day...
I will be sharing our trials, successes, and failures from time to time. Pray for our weaknesses as well as our strengths!
"The hand of the diligent shall bear rule: but the slothful shall be under tribute." Proverbs 12:24
The boys picking crab apples.....early in the morning......in their PJs.......
Thursday, September 22, 2011
Finding Joy
Did you know, that in the Bible, the word "joy" appears 165 times, and "joyful" appears 25 times?
Recently, I read a blog post encouraging mothers to be joyful in our everyday attitudes. This is a subject that I've posted on before, pray for constantly, and struggle with daily. A weakness in my character perhaps? Pretty much. As the Lord has been dealing with my attitude lately, I have made myself aware of all the little things that bring me joy, rather than the little things that I allow to bring me frustration. Being a mom of many, especially many little ones, it can be difficult at times to stay at peace and not get overwhelmed.
So, my next 30 day challenge for myself and to you is, find joy in the every day. Find one thing each day that usually frustrates you or upsets you, and turn it into a positive thought, or expression of joy! Some days it might come easily, other days it might take some prayer. I am trusting that after a time, I won't have to think about being joyful, I WILL be joyful.
I promise to post a verse a day on joy, just to hold my focus. I know I'm going to need it! Wanna join me?
"But let all those that put their trust in thee rejoice: let them ever shout for joy, because thou defendest them: let them also that love thy name be joyful in thee." Psalm 5:11
Here are a few things I have to be joyful about...
My cup runneth over. :)
Thursday, April 01, 2010
"...for the Lord seeth not as man seeth; for man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart." 1 Samuel 16:7
One Sunday morning as I was reading, I came across this popular verse. I have heard it interpreted and used to one's own advantage a number of times and in a number of ways. I continued reading, not giving great importance to the verse at the time. Later that morning, I was preparing breakfast before getting ready for church and heard this same verse on the radio. I figured maybe I should pay attention. ;) Not having time right then to think on it and pray about it, I did wonder why the Lord brought it to my attention? These are my thoughts on the subject.
I think that many times Christians tend to use this verse for more than what one might usually interpret. Meaning more than just the old cliche "It's what's on the inside that counts". I don't believe this passage should be used as a platform for modesty or the lack thereof. So many want to fit in, so many Christians give up wholesome ideals and demean themselves to the world's standards. How many times have I been informed of God's grace and Christ's sacrifice so we now have a life of freedom, all of this in an effort to live a life of whim and fancy with the excuse of forgiveness. As I am so very thankful for my salvation and God's mercy on this worthless sinner, I don't believe that Christ died so we can be free to wear tight jeans and revealing tank tops. There is a level of "freedom" that many Christians have taken advantage of. I admit to it myself. God may be looking at your heart, but man IS looking at your outward appearance and I mean that specifically to young ladies and women.
As many of you know, I live a conservative life and dress. The vast majority of the time, I am in a skirt and rarely wear any type of pants unless I may be doing some heavy yard work or housework. So I am speaking to myself when I say that, whereas some Christians may conform to the looks of the world, I have to be careful to not conform to the looks of those around me. It's just as important to dress the way I dress because I believe it's pleasing to the Lord and not because it's pleasing to my like-minded friends. My own convictions should be considered and not the convictions of other families I may admire. Just like many Christians want to fit in with the world and make excuses for their attire, I have to be careful I am not just trying to fit in with my church family. Being careful that the person I portray at church and with friends is the same person that lives in my home and among my family. I am thankful God looks at my heart, because my outward man fails so often.
Just consider, when you get dressed in the morning, who and/or what are you dressing for? Does your outward appearance reflect who you are on the inside? Are you dressing by the world's standards, your church's standards, or God's standards?
"I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God." Romans 12:1-2
One Sunday morning as I was reading, I came across this popular verse. I have heard it interpreted and used to one's own advantage a number of times and in a number of ways. I continued reading, not giving great importance to the verse at the time. Later that morning, I was preparing breakfast before getting ready for church and heard this same verse on the radio. I figured maybe I should pay attention. ;) Not having time right then to think on it and pray about it, I did wonder why the Lord brought it to my attention? These are my thoughts on the subject.
I think that many times Christians tend to use this verse for more than what one might usually interpret. Meaning more than just the old cliche "It's what's on the inside that counts". I don't believe this passage should be used as a platform for modesty or the lack thereof. So many want to fit in, so many Christians give up wholesome ideals and demean themselves to the world's standards. How many times have I been informed of God's grace and Christ's sacrifice so we now have a life of freedom, all of this in an effort to live a life of whim and fancy with the excuse of forgiveness. As I am so very thankful for my salvation and God's mercy on this worthless sinner, I don't believe that Christ died so we can be free to wear tight jeans and revealing tank tops. There is a level of "freedom" that many Christians have taken advantage of. I admit to it myself. God may be looking at your heart, but man IS looking at your outward appearance and I mean that specifically to young ladies and women.
As many of you know, I live a conservative life and dress. The vast majority of the time, I am in a skirt and rarely wear any type of pants unless I may be doing some heavy yard work or housework. So I am speaking to myself when I say that, whereas some Christians may conform to the looks of the world, I have to be careful to not conform to the looks of those around me. It's just as important to dress the way I dress because I believe it's pleasing to the Lord and not because it's pleasing to my like-minded friends. My own convictions should be considered and not the convictions of other families I may admire. Just like many Christians want to fit in with the world and make excuses for their attire, I have to be careful I am not just trying to fit in with my church family. Being careful that the person I portray at church and with friends is the same person that lives in my home and among my family. I am thankful God looks at my heart, because my outward man fails so often.
Just consider, when you get dressed in the morning, who and/or what are you dressing for? Does your outward appearance reflect who you are on the inside? Are you dressing by the world's standards, your church's standards, or God's standards?
"I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God." Romans 12:1-2
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Psalm 46
God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble.
Therefore will not we fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea;
Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof. Selah.
There is a river, the streams whereof shall make glad the city of God, the holy place of the tabernacles of the most High.
God is in the midst of her; she shall not be moved: God shall help her, and that right early.
The heathen raged, the kingdoms were moved: he uttered his voice, the earth melted.
The Lord of hosts is with us; the God of Jacob is our refuge. Selah.
Come, behold the works of the Lord, what desolations He hath made in the earth.
He maketh wars to cease unto the end of the earth; He breaketh the bow, and cutteth the spear in sunder; He burneth the chariot in the fire.
Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth.
The Lord of hosts is with us; the God of Jacob is our refuge. Selah.
Therefore will not we fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea;
Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof. Selah.
There is a river, the streams whereof shall make glad the city of God, the holy place of the tabernacles of the most High.
God is in the midst of her; she shall not be moved: God shall help her, and that right early.
The heathen raged, the kingdoms were moved: he uttered his voice, the earth melted.
The Lord of hosts is with us; the God of Jacob is our refuge. Selah.
Come, behold the works of the Lord, what desolations He hath made in the earth.
He maketh wars to cease unto the end of the earth; He breaketh the bow, and cutteth the spear in sunder; He burneth the chariot in the fire.
Be still, and know that I am God: I will be exalted among the heathen, I will be exalted in the earth.
The Lord of hosts is with us; the God of Jacob is our refuge. Selah.
Wednesday, October 21, 2009
My Brethren, Count It All Joy.
The Lord has never promised me that my life will be perfect, without trials, tribulations, sickness, or problems. He never said, I would have a long, happy, successful life without any worries. So, why do I feel I deserve a life without strife, a life of wealth, health, and abundance? Why do I feel the Lord owes me something, when in fact, He owes me nothing?! Why do I, a worthless, miserable sinner, feel that I deserve so much more? Why do I take it personally when bad things happen?!
Ecclesiastes 9:11 “I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all.”
I don't have the right to worry, to complain, to be fearful, to be content in life, to want more, or to take for granted the many blessing the Lord has blessed me with! I deserve NOTHING!
Thank goodness He took mercy on a dirty, filthy sinner like me. Thank goodness He has given me the promise of my Home in heaven where my worries will be no more. Praise the Lord, I am a child of God! God has graciously offered me eternal life, I have been made an heir to His kingdom, I am His! Oh how I don’t deserve it, but He has dealt mercifully with me and allowed me to be an adopted daughter, sharing in his riches in glory, and an eternal home! Who am I to complain when troubles come? I have been given a promise and an eternal hope! “ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father. The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God: And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may be also glorified together. For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.” Romans 8:15-18
God has given me so much here in my earthly home, who am I to complain when disaster or devastation comes? The things of this earth are so very temporary. Family and friends come and go, relationships fail, churches cycle, moths and rust destroy, but God is constant and His promises are forever. “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, which according to his abundant mercy hath begotten us again unto a lively hope by the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, To an inheritance incorruptible, and undefiled, and that fadeth not away, reserved in heaven for you, Who are kept by the power of God through faith unto salvation ready to be revealed in the last time” 1 Peter 1:3-5
“lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal: For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.” Hebrews 12:1-2
With every trial and tribulation I am drawn more expectantly to my homeward journey. I focus more on my eternal home than at my temporary surroundings. The temporary things of life are of no importance, but what matters is that which is eternal. “let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us, Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith;” Matthew 6:20-21
“My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness.” 2 Corinthians 12:9
The Lord is faithful. He has met our every need, and provided for our every plight. He has always made a way when life has seemed hopeless. I am so thankful for His gifts and His promises. Praise the Lord for hope!
“we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; And patience, experience; and experience, HOPE” Romans 5:3-4
Ecclesiastes 9:11 “I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all.”
I don't have the right to worry, to complain, to be fearful, to be content in life, to want more, or to take for granted the many blessing the Lord has blessed me with! I deserve NOTHING!
Thank goodness He took mercy on a dirty, filthy sinner like me. Thank goodness He has given me the promise of my Home in heaven where my worries will be no more. Praise the Lord, I am a child of God! God has graciously offered me eternal life, I have been made an heir to His kingdom, I am His! Oh how I don’t deserve it, but He has dealt mercifully with me and allowed me to be an adopted daughter, sharing in his riches in glory, and an eternal home! Who am I to complain when troubles come? I have been given a promise and an eternal hope! “ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father. The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God: And if children, then heirs; heirs of God, and joint-heirs with Christ; if so be that we suffer with him, that we may be also glorified together. For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us.” Romans 8:15-18
God has given me so much here in my earthly home, who am I to complain when disaster or devastation comes? The things of this earth are so very temporary. Family and friends come and go, relationships fail, churches cycle, moths and rust destroy, but God is constant and His promises are forever. “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, which according to his abundant mercy hath begotten us again unto a lively hope by the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, To an inheritance incorruptible, and undefiled, and that fadeth not away, reserved in heaven for you, Who are kept by the power of God through faith unto salvation ready to be revealed in the last time” 1 Peter 1:3-5
“lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal: For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also.” Hebrews 12:1-2
With every trial and tribulation I am drawn more expectantly to my homeward journey. I focus more on my eternal home than at my temporary surroundings. The temporary things of life are of no importance, but what matters is that which is eternal. “let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us, and let us run with patience the race that is set before us, Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith;” Matthew 6:20-21
“My grace is sufficient for thee: for my strength is made perfect in weakness.” 2 Corinthians 12:9
The Lord is faithful. He has met our every need, and provided for our every plight. He has always made a way when life has seemed hopeless. I am so thankful for His gifts and His promises. Praise the Lord for hope!
“we glory in tribulations also: knowing that tribulation worketh patience; And patience, experience; and experience, HOPE” Romans 5:3-4
Sunday, September 06, 2009
For You, My Friends...
The Pastor quoted another one of my favorite verses in church today. One that always makes me think fondly of my dear friends.
Philippians 1:3-4 "I thank my God upon every remembrance of you, always in every prayer of mine for you all making request with joy..."
Many times I have received prayer requests from friends or in emails, and instead of remembering to pray, I would tend to get busy and move along in my day, and forget them in my prayer time. How terrible of me as a sister in Christ! Think about it, what if you asked your dearest friend to pray for you about a specific, important matter, and they totally forgot? How would you feel? It happens, we get sidetracked, our ADD sets in, kids demand our attention, and we end up letting a friend down. Whether they are aware of it or not.
I have found that I really have to stop immediately what I am doing and pray for others, otherwise, I DO suffer from sidetrackedADDchildrensdemandsitis. I have to write it down right away in my prayer journal. Every time they come to my mind, pray for them. If I get an email, pray for them. If my children are around, we stop what we are doing and pray for them. There have been times I've prayed right then and there with a friend or over the phone with her. What a blessing to have the freedom and ability to go to the Lord for a friend. Sometimes we know specifically what they're going through, sometimes we don't, but the Lord always knows and He will honor our prayers. So, I encourage you, stop what you are doing, if it's possible, and pray for each other. Know that I am praying for you. :)
I thank the Lord for every one of you, my friends.
By the way, you should read the whole, encouraging chapter of Philippians 1, I know you will be blessed. :)
Philippians 1:3-4 "I thank my God upon every remembrance of you, always in every prayer of mine for you all making request with joy..."
Many times I have received prayer requests from friends or in emails, and instead of remembering to pray, I would tend to get busy and move along in my day, and forget them in my prayer time. How terrible of me as a sister in Christ! Think about it, what if you asked your dearest friend to pray for you about a specific, important matter, and they totally forgot? How would you feel? It happens, we get sidetracked, our ADD sets in, kids demand our attention, and we end up letting a friend down. Whether they are aware of it or not.
I have found that I really have to stop immediately what I am doing and pray for others, otherwise, I DO suffer from sidetrackedADDchildrensdemandsitis. I have to write it down right away in my prayer journal. Every time they come to my mind, pray for them. If I get an email, pray for them. If my children are around, we stop what we are doing and pray for them. There have been times I've prayed right then and there with a friend or over the phone with her. What a blessing to have the freedom and ability to go to the Lord for a friend. Sometimes we know specifically what they're going through, sometimes we don't, but the Lord always knows and He will honor our prayers. So, I encourage you, stop what you are doing, if it's possible, and pray for each other. Know that I am praying for you. :)
I thank the Lord for every one of you, my friends.
By the way, you should read the whole, encouraging chapter of Philippians 1, I know you will be blessed. :)
Sunday, August 30, 2009
A New Life!
I got to hold a sweet, newborn baby today! Just a few hours fresh. :) Little Luke, an added blessing to a loving family whom the Lord has chosen to bear many godly sons. I am so thankful for this family, willing to raise up strong men (and one little lady), for the Lord's glory! I pray the Lord's blessings for this precious family.
Psalm 127:3 "Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward."
Psalm 127:3 "Lo, children are an heritage of the Lord: and the fruit of the womb is his reward."
Thursday, August 27, 2009
A Day Without Sarcasm?
I recently tried to go a whole day without saying or thinking anything sarcastic. My conclusion: I have a problem with too much sarcasm. Most times the sarcastic or facetious comments made are meant in jest, but frequently my children or my husband tend to become the target of my quick tongue. With every foolish act or question, ill behavior or wrongful decision, I tend to revert to sarcasm. Such habits initially present themselves as innocent and playful, but they always seems to find their way into becoming bad ones. Such as our strengths and our weaknesses are often the same. I enjoy being able to come up with something quick witted and I love to make people laugh and feel comfortable, but I first must learn to tame my tongue. My prayer and desire is to be a kinder, more uplifting, merciful, encouraging, and gracious wife, mother, and friend. To quote the Proverbs 31 woman.... "She openeth her mouth with wisdom, and in her tongue is the law of kindness." Prov. 31:26 I hope I can learn to bridle my tongue and save my sarcasm for special occasions :D, totally giving up my wit would be like leaving a part of myself behind. May I one day become that kind of woman that opens her mouth with wisdom. Thanks for allowing me to share my heart.
"Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. " Phil. 4:8
Blessings,
Tab
"Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. " Phil. 4:8
Blessings,
Tab
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